Stick or twist? Xbox one or PS4

Hi guys sorry I know its another "one of those threads" but was wondering if anyone else is thinking of changing their mind? I've pre-ordered the Xbox one but I'm thinking of swapping it now for the PS4 the Xbox one has received an upgrade graphics processor tuned by 7% sorry M$ thats not enough to even notice I was expecting more and 12 GB Ram. I pre-ordered after I heard the rumours of m$ possibly upping the specs I was expecting more if I'm honest after hearing some of the rumours. I'm very temped to switch, think its just the unknown thats stopping me M$ have a proven online setup which I believe they've increased significantly ok Sony are now charging for their online service but is it going to cope has good as M$ offering? Its not all about the console its about the over all package. I only play online multiplayer COD mainly might get BF4. I'm wondering whether I'm best not pre-ordering and waiting but with Christmas close to release date anyway both systems won't have time to see which one fairs best and I'll get one on release date or xmas. It was easy with the xbox 360 because it had been out a couple of years before I bought it and was clearly the better console at that time although I still bought a PS3 first lol then sold it.

Any help here guys?

I wouldn't get rid of your XBox One pre-order just yet. The PS4 seems as if it's going to be easier to get at or near launch and we will be getting more concrete info at Gamescom. If the Kinect thing isn't an issue for you then you will be in a great position to just get what your friends are getting. The reality is that we won't know which system is best until they are in our hands and even then it will be a year or two before we see real differences.

I know Ill be going with the PS4... but that is what I have been going with since day 1...